Now we’ve been here a few weeks, days are starting to settle into a routine.
It’s taken a while, and some false starts to get to a place that seems to be working, and I suppose the lack of internet helped with that. It’s so distracting. It calls to me. From the other end of the house….
Enough of that!
We started out walking to school. It’s less than 1km, so I figured 10-15 minutes at the most. I forgot to factor in one 4 year old and a tired 5 year old after school. As a result, a round trip can take anything up to an hour and a half.
Clearly not a frugal use of my time.
With some assistance from my parents, I discovered that if I leave of an afternoon by 10 minutes to finishing time I can park a block away and walk the last distance and be there in time to pick M&M up (the traffic and parking outside the school are ridiculous).
If I need to get a park outside the school for some reason I need to be there 1 hour before finishing time. No, that’s not a joke. With 900 kids and 40 car parks for the school, some of which are (illegally) utilized by the university accommodation in the same street which didn’t provide enough parking for residents and a cul-de-sac it was always going to be a nightmare. I went to the university around the time the school opened (12 years ago) and it was a nightmare then when the school was 100 kids. I don’t know why they thought it would get better by adding more children.
Ahem. Back on topic.
Afternoons are now chaotic with one after school activity after another, so quick pickups are imperative.
So that’s sorted.
Drop offs are another matter entirely. Being that M&M is in prep, she is really supposed to be dropped off and picked up at the classroom by someone (older sibling, parent etc). After a few performances from Kiki wanting to stay with M&M for school (she will be in prep next year) the teacher and I discussed it and decided that the mornings I have Kiki with me, I will drop M&M off at the gate, from which I can watch her to the classroom door.
These developments have freed up an enormous amount of time. I still walk one morning a week and in the afternoons when we don’t have an afterschool activity, but for the most part, my busy days just got a lot quieter.
Well, until I filled them with something else.
Hubby, bless him, has been working some long hours, which for the most part has meant I’ve been getting up earlier (although not this morning, which is a topic for another post). This has enabled me to get the majority of my cleaning done before leaving for school (since we’re leaving later). I can have two loads of washing on the line and the downstairs parts of the house clean before school, leaving me with my school hours to, well, theoretically, study.
Of course it doesn’t always work that way. I have errands which are mostly conveniently done straight after school drop off. Tuesday’s Miss Moo has swimming lessons. Etc. But when I get home, generally, I can distract whichever children are home with whatever I can find (another post there as well) and firmly plant myself at my desk until the cries of hunger are too loud to ignore. Kiki has taken to sitting at the other desk colouring while I work, and especially when Miss Moo is sleeping I can get an awful lot of work done during the day.
Around 2:30 I check the clock and panic (might have to set an alarm on my phone or something to give me a bit of a chance to get organised) and pack bags, snacks etc for whatever afternoon activity we have, then pile everyone into the car and off we go.
Afternoons/evenings are another matter entirely. Probably another post even.
It’s no wonder I fall into bed exhausted every night.